adopt-a-dad

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anyone want to adopt my dad?

he gets drunk pretty much every day
he shits on the toilet floor and all over the toilet,.
tbh i'm absolutely f**king sick of it.
take him away

giving him away free. subject to £10.00 postage & packaging charge

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:(

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some dads are pretty much like that m8 ...but hey....things will change ...might take a **** load of time to change but they will change......:(

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tell him what he's doing is making you unhappy and he might start to realise what he's doing

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well, he's been an alcoholic all my life, so i doubt he'll change.
the poo thing is only recent, but bloody disgusting

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my dad was like that(not the poo thing) he was drunk all the time on hard cider and it got me down as a lad but, he is now disabled (liver and diabetic probs) and needs me, mum and me brother more than he ever knew and realizes what he did... i understand but he is still your dad....


if my kids ever say that about me, then i will be dissapointed in myself....

also my wife has cystic fibsosis, diabetes and asthma so things can only get better eh? I care for her every day and night and look to my dad for, well i dont know, but my dad gives me more respect than ever before....

you love your dad or you would not share this with us and thats a start...

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this thread was more a 'venting' if anything, i could still smell the poo as i typed it.
don't get me wrong, he means a helluva lot to me (the only family i have is him and 1 brother) , i just dont want to see him kill himself from his over drinking

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Your there for him bro and he couldnt want any more from his son....

you should be proud of yaself and the fact that your dad means so much to you.

plenty of sons cant say that...

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without this turing into a self help group...lol my old man was the same drank every day..was abusive physically, emotionaly and mentally....(thats kinda why I do the work I do...lol) anyway thing is he never changed and it killed him...however my wife's mother was the same and has just spent the last three weeks in hospital with alcoholic hepititis.. she is now learning to walk again ...and will take about two years to fully recover...however the one bonus if you like is that she can never drink again...I know you might think shes is an alcoholic she will still drink however, self preservation is a wonderful thing....I honestly believe this time she won't cos if she does she will be dead within the week..... my main point is there is always a reason for these things there is always some reason why someone drinks too much ..or has a self destructive lifestyle...I know its hard living with it..(believe me I know...lol) but sometimes we need to try and figure out why someone is being the way they are...it might not stop you from being mad at them however it might help you understand them a little more...thats my tuppence worth..hope it makes sense if not disregard...lol

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i got a good dad no swithcing over here

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well my dads idea of a good time was to go out, get pissed then come home and beat his family.
so much so that i ended up being adopted.
my new dad was great, he never hit me once my whole life, but sadly he died from lukemia when he was only 43 :(
my real dad, well he's alive and well and probly making someone elses life a missery somewhere.

sometimes theres no justice in this world.

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i dont know what to say....

just how brave you lot really are....

ive never experienced anything like what all of you have been through and are still going through...

my heart goes out to all of you.....

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my dad never hit me or my sis any way.... he just like forgot that we exzisted.. but my new dad is cool been living with him for 10 years anyways or is it 13 dunno... but my first paa is out there somewhere with another new family

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just keep ure heads high lads, u cant take responsibillity for other persons live besides ure own, only can be there for others as a human should

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hehe told you this would turn into a self help group...lol one thing to remember even though we may have had the worst dads in the world they still had a hand in shaping teh people we have turned out to be...I for one am determined not to make the mistakes he did and as a result (so far...lol) I have an excellent relationship with my son... thats another reason why I don't drink very often..also...so we have to be thankful to them for that at least I think...I am anyway....